It’s been almost a month now since I retired from my job of almost 40 years.

Contrary to what some people may think, retiring is an adjustment. After all, it is a major lifestyle change, right up there with marriage, children, divorce, well you get my drift.

When you have worked for almost 50 years, and about 40 for the same company, you have established a routine. It takes time to change what you and your body have been doing for some time. I knew it was going to be a strange reality at best, for a short period. Sleeping habits will eventually be different, as will knowing that I have time…to do what I want to do!

My desire to retire was overwhelming. You just know when the time is right. Well, at least I did. Some people are never sure when they will be ready. Reasons vary depending on the person. Financial, emotional or just worries of having nothing else to do are some of the criteria people use to make the decision.

I’ve been asked by several people what if I get bored, will I return to the job market in any capacity. My answer is an emphatic NO! My timing was calculated on the financial comfort level involved and my health in general.

The job I had took a toll on me physically and emotionally. My goal was to not work past the age of 65. I achieved that goal. The other one was to not work in anymore capacity where the stress level was as high from what I left. There are so many things I want to do and can do. That is how I approach it.

In the past month I’ve learned not to feel guilty to just do nothing on a given day. Reading a book now is something I can do because I have time and won’t fall asleep as soon as I pick it up. Watching movies in the middle of the day if I desire too. No feeling of having to do something because it’s expected of me. I can always say, I’ll get to it tomorrow!

However, not everyone is cut out for full time retirement. Right now the pandemic has changed peoples plans enough, where those who might have wanted to retire are waiting a while. I saw no need to do so. I want to travel, but for now that will wait some. I have projects at home that I can’t wait to get into. Then there are the holidays. Knowing that I can enjoy the holidays and not worry about getting time off from work.

Yes, retirement has its benefits for me. I can only speak for me. I’ve earned this transitional period in my life, to coincide with also being a new grandmother. If I can be around for a while to love this new lifestyle, then I am lucky enough to have stopped working in time.

To those thinking about it, look at all the facts and changes you will have to go through. If you think you can handle it, then I highly recommend it. You only live once in this lifetime. Try to enjoy your later years! No one else will live it for you!!